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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Talula and Lindsayโ€™s Advice for Occupational Therapy Students Jazzed about Sexual Health

I average 5 emails a week from OT students asking the question, โ€œwhere do I start?โ€, โ€œwhat do I do if this content isnโ€™t addressed within my program?โ€, โ€œwho can mentor me?โ€. Additionally, 15% of CSOT enrollees are students hungry for information about Sexual Health OT because they know their program didnโ€™t prepare them. Then I met Lindsay and Talulaโ€ฆ

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Shifting the Focus: Centering Euphoria & Pleasure in Sexual Health

Until 2018, narratives largely centered dysphoria in connection with transgender and gender diverse (TGD) experiences (Ashley & Ells, 2018). With that, a deficits-based narrative and pathology-focused lens dominated conversations around sexual health and TGD folks.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Why I Wrote an Article About Porn

There comes a point in every Sex OT evaluation when I ask, โ€œWhat are yโ€™all doing when you have sex? For example, how does it start, what happens next, and then what?โ€

If you work in any setting where youโ€™re discussing sex or pelvic floor dysfunction, we need to know what sex looks like so we can do an activity analysis and identify where the breakdown is.

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Sarah Dennis Sarah Dennis

What To Do When the Client Seems Cagey

There comes a point in every Sex OT evaluation when I ask, โ€œWhat are yโ€™all doing when you have sex? For example, how does it start, what happens next, and then what?โ€

If you work in any setting where youโ€™re discussing sex or pelvic floor dysfunction, we need to know what sex looks like so we can do an activity analysis and identify where the breakdown is.

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Sarah Dennis Sarah Dennis

Sex is Warโ€™s Antidote

Over the past two years, I had the honor of training Ukrainian healthcare providers (many veterans themselves) to lead sexual health conversations with the kind of courage and clarity this work demands. What started as a 4-month training turned into a full-blown train-the-trainer program thatโ€™s now launching across Ukraine.

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When OT Ignores Sex Part 2: Scottโ€™s Interview with Kathryn Ellis (Founder of ISOT)

This blog features an interview with my friend Scott (name changed for confidentiality), a disabled adult I first connected with back in 2020. I asked if heโ€™d be open to sharing his storyโ€”one that highlights the very real shortcomings of occupational therapy when it comes to addressing sex, and the lived experience of navigating disability while trying (and eventually succeeding) to access sexual connection.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

When OT Ignores Sex: Scottโ€™s Story from Depression to Being His Own OT

This blog is written by my friend, Scott (*name changed for confidentiality). Scott and I started emailing back in 2020. Recently, I asked him if heโ€™d be willing to share his story which includes examples of Occupational Therapy shortcomings, as well as the lived narrative of a person with a disability trying and eventually succeeding to access sex.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Putting Pleasure into Practice

What if pleasure wasnโ€™t just a perk, but a practice? In the world of occupational therapy, โ€œpleasureโ€ often gets left out of the conversationโ€”hidden behind clinical terms like โ€œsexual activityโ€ or โ€œintimate social participation.โ€ But at the 2025 OT Sex Summit, weโ€™re bringing it front and center. From reclaiming joy post-injury to reimagining what OT can look like when rooted in play, intimacy, and embodiment, this post is your invitation to think bigger. Because putting pleasure into practice isnโ€™t just radicalโ€”itโ€™s essential.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Read the full post to see why this shift matters, and how you can be part of it.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

30 Touch Exercises to Guide Sexuality OT Interventions

Kathryn collaborated with Hannah Tyer for this monthโ€™s blog. Hannah is an Occupational Therapist and Certified Sexuality Occupational Therapy Practitioner who runs a private sex therapy practice in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. I canโ€™t overstate how excited I get whenever I see OTs in product development roles.  A huge kudos to Hannah for pushing the boundaries of where and how OTs show up to change the world!

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

13 Questions to Guide You During an Eval

The number one mistake I see OT/OTAs (OTs) make when they address sex with clients is that they donโ€™t ask enough questions. This is because our patients can quite often be a bit tightlipped when discussing sex. They may answer verbosely, but not really answer the question, or they might answer the question with as few words as possible. OTs can interpret their patients' hesitancy as either discomfort or perhaps a nonverbal boundary that they donโ€™t want to discuss more. 

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

5 OT Approaches to Address Sex with People with Disabilities 

Occupational therapy clinicians are perfectly situated to address sex with our patients, because the occupational therapy approach already gives us all the skills we need. Read on to learn about adaptive strategies, trial and error, energy conservation, assistive technology, and downgrading.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Sex & Brain Injury: Staff Conversation Guide for 4 Different Patient Scenarios

I got the idea for this handout when I was conducting a 10 hour training for an interdisciplinary Brain Injury Unit team. The training was focused on interventions and considerations for sex and relationships for people with brain injury. The team asked a LOT of questions about how to respond to sexually relevant comments and questions. There were a lot of โ€œwell what about this scenarioโ€ฆ?โ€ and โ€œwhat if this happensโ€ฆ?โ€

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Occupational Therapy Approaches to Brain Injury and Sexuality

60% of people with brain injury report difficulties with sexual health. 75% demonstrate hyposexual difficulties, while 25% demonstrate hypersexual behaviors. Since there is often no guidance on how to navigate these symptoms or address the sexual goals of patients, staff can often be at a loss for what to doโ€ฆ.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Four Interventions to Address Hypersexualization, Asexualization, & Fetishization

Clinicians can, rightfully so, feel cautions to challenge what clients admit as cultural messages. For example, "I grew up in a Catholic home and still view sex as 'dirty' and 'sinful,' and Iโ€™m having a hard time enjoying it,โ€ or โ€œMy culture values young women, and women over 40 arenโ€™t considered attractive anymoreโ€ฆ

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

AOTAโ€™s Post-Dobbs Task Force Report: OTโ€™s Role in Reproductive Health Promotion and Sexual Health

After the June 2022 Supreme Court decision โ€œDobbโ€™s v. Jackson Womenโ€™s Health Organizationโ€ Alyson Stover, AOTA President, and Micheal Urban, the RA Speaker, requested a Post-Dobbs Task Force to identify the impact of the ruling on OT clients and OT practitioners. The task force, chaired by Emily Rothman and Rakhi Srivastava, identified areas within OTs scope of practice that are directly impacted by the Dobbs decision and generated a plan to address these areas and maximize OTs impact on those affected by the decision.

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Kathryn Ellis Kathryn Ellis

Considerations for OT Clients who are BIPOC Women: Why Sexuality Has to be Viewed from an Intersectional Lens

The history of how society has molded perceptions of women is a multifaceted narrative that has endured for centuries, influenced by cultural, regional, and media representations. Women have often found themselves defined by preconceived notions imposed upon them by others, commonly men. Within this context, different groups of women have experienced a spectrum of stereotypes, ranging from asexualization to sexualization, hypersexualization, and fetishization.

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